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How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man. It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have ...

My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do? How does one deal with a man who has a history of having sex with prostitutes? Should one just let the past go? Well, here is one an email from one of our concerned readers... I met a man online la...

Why Women Should Make Men Wait For Sex Now I know that writing this is not going to change a thing. People who were irked by the concept that women should make men invest more before having sex are still probably going to be irked – but ...

Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me? Katie was in what she thought was a great relationship. Until it suddenly ended after the guy kissed him goodbye. Little did she know it was the last. Here is her story...

How Character, Income and Education Impact Your Choices - And Your Success Studies since the Stanford marshmallow experiment have shown that people with the ability to delay gratification (study instead of party, abstain from sex or wear condoms, not abuse drugs or alcohol),...

I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...

My Boyfriend Expressed Doubts When Asking Me to Be His Girlfriend. Should I Worry? Margaret has niggling fears over her boyfriend's admission that he wasn’t ready when he asked her to be his girlfriend, and that he had doubts even after he had asked her during the early days. Is t...

Meeting Your Date's Friends: Your Ultimate Guide to Making the Right Impression Hey there! When your new partner invites you to meet their friends, that's not just a casual hangout. That's a milestone! I'm Leticia, and today I'm breaking down everything you need to know about nav...

Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis? Does size really matter? One of our readers is wondering if she should point this out to the great man she just met. Here is her email... I met a great guy on a dating site two months ago and we’ve ...

You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally! Have you ever felt stronger about someone than he felt about you? Have you ever been in a relationship where you were always worried about being dumped? Have you ever longed for someone’s affections...

How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...

Become the CEO of your Love Life with Evan Marc Katz Dating Coaching with Evan Anyone can go to the gym. Those who want the best results work with a personal trainer. I am a personal trainer for people who want to fall in love. My mission is to give in...

How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later? One of our readers was concerned about how to respond to a guy who has disappeared. Not just the kind that disappears for months... just the kind who contacts you after a week or so. There goes... "I ...

About Evan Marc Katz Hi, I’m Evan Marc Katz. I’m a dating coach who specializes in helping smart, strong, successful women understand and connect with men. I have over 10 million blog readers, over 70,000 newslett...

Why Women Feel Guilty About Earning More Money Today, we’re going to explore the pull between women being proud of their career success and feeling guilty about out-earning their male partners.

Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years? As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Mich...

How Can I Be So Good at Dating and Still Not Find Love? Alex feels that he is a little too good at dating. And much as it is fun, he doesn't feel like he is getting closer to finding love. How can his dating skills help him find love?

Can I Have a Lustful Relationship with a Long-Term Partner? Evan answers: Why does it have to be a lustful relationship versus a long-term relationship? Why does one need to negate another?

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Infidelity is a topic that most people have a problem dealing with. Well, one of our readers met this very nice man recently. Unfortunately, he openly admitted that the reason he is separated from the...

Can You Have Meaningless Sex While You're Looking for a Long Term Relationship? Melanie is going through a phase where she just wants to have hookups or just get laid. Here is my advice for her...

Navigating Love While Raising Little Ones: The Single Parent Dating Journey Let's get real for a minute, family. Dating is already complicated enough with all its unspoken rules and expectations. Now throw in bedtime stories, soccer practice, and parent-teacher conferences? ...

Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s? One of our male readers was wondering... "I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that ...

I'm a Little Lonely. Most Men Are REALLY Lonely. Want to know why guys bear their souls on the first date and want to marry you on the second date? Look no further than the loneliness epidemic

You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening again. And to protect yourself from being hurt by a...

Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?

Doing the Best I Can - Why Fathers Leave Their Children "The next time you hear about a man who is an absentee father, try to summon a little sympathy for his plight. He may not be entirely blameless, but he probably shouldn’t shoulder all the blame eith...

The Most Important Dating Advice You'll Ever Hear - Don't Do Anything One of our readers, Robyn, dropped us an email which read: I am a 33 year old single woman. I seem to always attract “great guys”, and we always have a lot of fun. But anytime I want to gently “...

You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game. Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date....

Men Look for Sex and Find Love. Women Look for Love and Find Sex. Laura has been dating online for a while now and has started to notice a trend with a lot of the men who have contacted her. They seem not to want anything serious.

Spring Has Sprung: 10 Date Ideas to Bloom Your Interracial Relationship Spring brings new life, warmer days, and fresh opportunities to connect with that special someone! As the flowers bloom and the weather warms up, it's the perfect time to venture outdoors and create m...

Should I Keep Faking Orgasms to Build My Man's Confidence? One of our readers realized that the man she is dating has no confidence in the bedroom. The sex is terrible. She has resorted to faking it. Should she?

Why Don't Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do? One of our readers Elaine dropped us an email wondering why women hate being single. It read: Dear Evan, Why don’t men hate being single as much as women do? I know you say most men are marriage-m...

How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on?” If yo...

5 Lessons Our Most Successful Couples Want You to Know Hey there, beautiful people! Leticia here, coming at you with some real talk about finding love across cultural lines. I've been in this dating coach game for years now, and let me tell you—I've see...

What You Can Learn From a Real-Life "He's Just Not That Into You" Situation Here is an email from one of our readers, Charlene: I am 41, divorced with two kids. Three months ago, I met someone, 38, no kids, never been married. We exchanged phone numbers, went out a couple tim...

Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...

"You truly changed my life, my outlook...and I am grateful!!" My dating client, Mary L., has been happily dating John since our sessions and came back to us with a grateful note. Let's see what she said. "I’ve been thinking about our coaching so much lately! ...

How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...

How Risky Is It to Break the Commitment First Rule and Have Sex? One of our readers says: "Waiting to have sex until I’m committed to someone is taking so long (it’s so hard to say that out loud – gosh)."

Love Beyond Words: When You Don't Share a First Language Have you ever locked eyes with someone across the room and felt that instant connection, only to realize that you don't speak the same language? Let me tell you – that language barrier doesn't have ...

When to Take the Next Step: Moving from Online Chatting to Meeting in Person Are y'all ready to level up your dating game? Hey there, I'm Leticia, and today we're talking about something that trips up so many of my clients – figuring out when it's the right time to move from...