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Why Your First Message Matters More Than You Think
Hey beautiful people! Leticia here, and today we're going to talk about something that can make or break your online dating success – that crucial first message. As someone who's helped countless co... read more
What Your Laugh Says About You
Ever wondered what your sense of humor reveals about your personality? Recent research uncovers four distinct humor styles and the fascinating insights they offer into who we are and how we relate to ... read more
Why Ghosters Always Come Back and How to Deal with Them
Ever been ghosted? It’s like a dating riddle wrapped in a mystery. You think everything's going great, and then poof! They vanish. But what happens when the ghoster unexpectedly resurfaces, breathin... read more
Why Having Nothing in Common Can Be the Key
Ever felt that initial spark fizzle out because you and your partner seem worlds apart? It's common to panic when you think, "We have nothing in common." But before you jump ship, consider this: diffe... read more
Tips on Giving Compliments That Build on Relationships
Have you ever had a conversation with someone where they offered you a compliment that deeply affected you? One where you just carry the sentiment and that warm glowing feeling of validation it brings... read more
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How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game
How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game You've found someone special, and you want to make sure you're being the best partner you can be. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or deepening your connection with a long-...
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How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date?
How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date? The beginning of a relationship is one of the most exciting times, filled with bright expectations and new adventures. One of the things that makes this period especially fun is the prospect of vacati...
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Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last?
Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last? I don’t mean to pound the drum like this. Honestly. I don’t look for these articles; they just tend to find me. Thanks to living in the Information Age and the advent of Big Data, we now have the ...
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How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart
How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man. It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have ...
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Evaluate Your Relationship, Not Your Partner
Evaluate Your Relationship, Not Your Partner At the risk of embarrassing myself (and a friend of mine), I’m going to share with you a conversation I had in 2008 when I was debating whether or not I should get married. It contained some price...
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You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men
You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening again. And to protect yourself from being hurt by a...
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You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally!
You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally! Have you ever felt stronger about someone than he felt about you? Have you ever been in a relationship where you were always worried about being dumped? Have you ever longed for someone’s affections...
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How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men
How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on?” If yo...
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You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't
You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game. Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date....
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Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing?
Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...
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Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years?
Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years? As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Mich...
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My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do?
My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do? How does one deal with a man who has a history of having sex with prostitutes? Should one just let the past go? Well, here is one an email from one of our concerned readers... I met a man online la...
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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Infidelity is a topic that most people have a problem dealing with. Well, one of our readers met this very nice man recently. Unfortunately, he openly admitted that the reason he is separated from the...
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Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis?
Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis? Does size really matter? One of our readers is wondering if she should point this out to the great man she just met. Here is her email... I met a great guy on a dating site two months ago and we’ve ...
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Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me?
Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me? Katie was in what she thought was a great relationship. Until it suddenly ended after the guy kissed him goodbye. Little did she know it was the last. Here is her story...
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How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later?
How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later? One of our readers was concerned about how to respond to a guy who has disappeared. Not just the kind that disappears for months... just the kind who contacts you after a week or so. There goes... "I ...
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I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams
I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...
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How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man?
How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...
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Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing?
Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?
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Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s?
Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s? One of our male readers was wondering... "I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that ...
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Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad
Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...
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How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good?
How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...
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5 Japanese Traditions That Strengthen Relationships
5 Japanese Traditions That Strengthen Relationships When I first started coaching interracial couples, I noticed something interesting about my clients in relationships with Japanese partners. These couples often described practices that kept their bon...
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Why You Might Want to Try Dating Multiple People
Why You Might Want to Try Dating Multiple People In today's dating world, options are aplenty, especially with the rise of online dating. It's not uncommon to find yourself seeing multiple people at once or exploring different connections simultaneo...
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The ‘Picky Problem’ in Dating: How to Break Free
The ‘Picky Problem’ in Dating: How to Break Free We've all heard it a million times: "I'm just too picky when it comes to dating." The pickiness predicament is a common theme among both men and women, often cited as a barrier to finding love. But be...
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Why Forgiveness is Necessary When it Comes to Love?
Why Forgiveness is Necessary When it Comes to Love? Forgiveness, often touted as "forgive and forget," is a profound yet challenging aspect of human experience. It requires grappling with a myriad of emotions – anger, pain, frustration, fear – that...
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How to leave the past behind
How to leave the past behind Your past experiences significantly influence your present dating life. Whether stemming from childhood wounds or past breakups, these experiences shape your perceptions and behaviors in relationships...
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Is PDA a Sign of Relationship Strength?
Is PDA a Sign of Relationship Strength? Public Display of Affection (PDA) – you've likely heard the term before, but what does it really mean in the context of a relationship? Let's unravel the intricacies of PDA and explore its significa...
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When and How to Say 'I Love You'
When and How to Say "I Love You" So, you're feeling those butterflies, your heart's doing the happy dance, and you're thinking it might just be time to drop the big L-word: "I love you." But when's the right moment? And how do you sa...
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What It Really Means When Your Partner Wants Sex All the Time
What It Really Means When Your Partner Wants Sex All the Time Alright, let's dive into this topic: when your partner's libido seems to be on overdrive. It's like they're always ready to hit the bedroom, and you're left wondering what's going on. Well, let's unpa...
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9 Signs you’re ready to get engaged
9 Signs you’re ready to get engaged So, you're thinking about taking that big step and getting engaged, huh? It's a major milestone in any relationship, and understandably, you want to make sure you're absolutely ready before you pop th...
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To Break or Not to Break?
To Break or Not to Break? In the rollercoaster journey of love, there inevitably comes a time when couples may find themselves at a crossroads, wondering if taking a break is the solution to their relationship woes. But does h...
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Should You Be Friends with Your Ex? Exploring the Pros and Cons
Should You Be Friends with Your Ex? Exploring the Pros and Cons Breaking up is never easy, but what happens after the breakup can be just as tricky to navigate. One question that often arises is whether it's a good idea to remain friends with your ex-partner. In t...
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The Top 5 Excuses for Being Too Busy to Date
The Top 5 Excuses for Being Too Busy to Date In life, there are undoubtedly situations that genuinely hinder one's ability to prioritize dating. For instance, juggling the responsibilities of single parenthood alongside multiple jobs can leave l...
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From Chance Encounters to Chemistry: Real Love Stories That Will Make You Believe
From Chance Encounters to Chemistry: Real Love Stories That Will Make You Believe Hey there beautiful souls! Leticia here, comin' at you with some real-life success stories that'll warm your heart and maybe give you that push you need to keep your dating journey going strong. ...
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From Long Distance to Lifetime Love
From Long Distance to Lifetime Love When "NOVEEERAM" (Evon) joined our site searching for a genuine husband, she had little confidence that online dating would lead to true love. Meanwhile, "Mozay64" (Moses) had been a member for six ye...
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Real Success Stories from Our Global Dating Community
Real Success Stories from Our Global Dating Community Hey there beautiful people! Leticia here, your favorite dating coach and relationship advisor. Today, I want to share something special with y'all – some heartwarming success stories from our divers...
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Love Blossomed Under the Eiffel Tower
Love Blossomed Under the Eiffel Tower In the bustling world of online dating, where swipes and clicks often dictate the course of romance, Chardae and Johnson found a connection that transcended virtual boundaries. Engaged and deeply in l...
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Love at First 'Click': Claudy & Scott's Romance
Love at First 'Click': Claudy & Scott's Romance Online dating has revolutionized the way we meet and connect with people. With countless success stories from couples who have found love, the allure of the digital romance realm cannot be ignored. On...
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He flew in for their first date
He flew in for their first date Love, as the saying goes, defies all limits, whether it be age, race, or geographical separation. Joyce and Michael's journey serves as a heartwarming affirmation of this timeless wisdom. Their affect...
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From Online Chat to Happily Ever After: Tania and David's Love Story
From Online Chat to Happily Ever After: Tania and David's Love Story In a world where busy schedules often leave little time for traditional dating, the digital realm of online dating has become a promising avenue for many. For Tania and David, their journey from virtu...
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From Screens to Hearts: Edith and Max's Online Connection
From Screens to Hearts: Edith and Max's Online Connection Once upon a time, in the vast realm of online dating, Edith and Max embarked on a journey that defied skepticism and brought them love. Edith, known as "Yoresmile," and Max, also known as "Mxxoll," fo...
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Walking In Vegas
Walking In Vegas The member handles “Mystique” and “Solarcturus” kind of sound like superhero names, don’t they? No wonder these two clicked on our site! Ashley (Mystique) says it was “the Coronavirus epid...
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They Had Hit The Jackpot In Their Search For Love
They Had Hit The Jackpot In Their Search For Love Robin and Anthony are now engaged. But not so long ago, they had profiles on our site with the handles “Dallas75252” (Robin) and “EsilorMan” (Anthony). We asked Robin what drew her to online ...
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A Magic Movie Scene
A Magic Movie Scene One day, Veronica decided to get a membership on our site. “I was curious to see what was out there,” she says of her interest in online dating. As for Theodore, the man she would meet, someone el...
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He Made Her Feel Like a Kid Again
He Made Her Feel Like a Kid Again “I was in my room daydreaming of him like a teenage girl,” Jade giggles as she remembers the moment she realized her budding relationship with Nathan might be special. Let’s rewind. Not so long ...
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Giggly as a Schoolgirl
Giggly as a Schoolgirl The moment Daniel saw the profile of “SexyTina71” on our site, he sprang into action. “He reached out to me first via email,” Tina tells us. “Though I can’t remember what was said in the e...
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Polar Opposites
Polar Opposites Tracy and Christian met in 8th-grade math class. Christian was the quiet kid with tattoos who sat in the back of the class, while Tracy was the first student who always had her hand up, ready to answe...
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When Two Become One
When Two Become One Antonio and Jeannie come from two different worlds but are connected as one spiritually. Jeannie is from Ireland, and Antonio is from Mexico. They share the same family values and religious beliefs. E...
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Through Thick and Thin
Through Thick and Thin Bobby and Abby Green keep on proving that if something is worth it, you will fight for it. Bobby was a senior in high school, and Abby was a sophomore when they met. She knew that he was the ...
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Love Knows No Boundaries
Love Knows No Boundaries How Did You Meet? Joy and Ryan show us that love knows no boundaries. Joy is from Nigeria, and Ryan is from the US; still, they proved that if you love someone, distance doesn't matter. "I first set ...
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Covid Couples
Covid Couples Jessica and Justin met online. They were in the mitts of the pandemic in 2020, and they were Facetiming each other into the New Year. They would always be talking to each other. Since the pandemic, J...
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