Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Online Online behemoth Match.com recently announced at the annual “Singles in America” study by Match Group the 35% of marriages occur online. This is huge. Just 12 years ago it was 3%. What is more, 60...

Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men I’ve gotten about a dozen messages about a new interracial dating book in circulation. Northwestern University professor, Cheryl Judice, author of Interracial Relationships with Black Women and Whit...

Have The Best Sex Ever, With These Words...{VIDEO} (What Men Really Want To Hear) Do you ever wish your man would talk more dirty to you? Ever wondered how to get him to act out your fantasies? I’m always shocked by how many women avoid having the...

Critics Coming Around to Swirling... After Trashing Us. There have been a lot of prior critics of this platform and the general idea of black women entertaining the romantic overtures of non-black men as of late. I find this interesting. Especially after ...

Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects? One of my fans confided in me that she was so set on dating Asian men that she learned Mandarin and Korean. She then set out for an extended trip to China to teach English. She never came back to the ...

Do You Worry He's "Not Sure" About You? Do This... {VIDEO} I’m a big believer these days in the power of "NO!". What we decide to say “NO” to in relationships is often as important what we say yes to. I’ve seen thousands of women saying yes to all th...

The New York Times Notices More IR Commercials, Too. As I just watched yet another interracial couple featured in a Progressive Insurance ad, (you know, the ones where the kids start turning into their parents) I get a Facebook notification that the New...

How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...

If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly, Watch This... Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast? You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked. Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation w...

China Struggles with 33 Million Shortage of Marriageable Women Black women thought the two million black man shortage was bad. Imagine what Chinese men are going through now that there are 33 million more men than women in their country. Where are all the women? ...