Interracial Dating Later in Life: Are You Scared to Date a White Boy? Here's an interview with a 62-year-old baby boomer who married a white guy. She has some important perspectives and advice to give.

Black Women: The Article on Love You Need Here is the thing, forget media sensationalization and the hype. You are in the game when it comes to love. There is a lot of data out there about love, marriage, and black women. A few years ago th...

Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not the focal point of this article. The focus o...

Black vs. Biracial... Should we keep clinging to the one-drop rule? Much as once upon a time someone came up with the one-drop rule, isn't it time that we made room for biracial people like other countries?

If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...

You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women We once had a video where we discussed 6 reasons White Men and Black Women marriages last the longest. Now a lot of folks might not agree but there are statistics supporting all this. Black women and ...

Black Women, Your Pain Only Matters When a White Man Hurts You “No! Stop! Help Me! Please Help Me!” Those were the words I heard when viewing a video in which someone conducted a Facebook Live of a woman appearing to be drugged and a man forcibly raping her ...

The Interracial Element You Might Have Missed in "Bird Box" [SPOILER] The Netflix film, Bird Box is a definitive hit. Produced by Sandra Bullock, the sci-fi horror film where an unknown force compels people to commit suicide is comprised of a ragtag group of people bar...

Why Other Black Women are Becoming More Vocally Against Us 'Swirlers' I guess as the head-girl advocating black women expanding their dating options makes me Public Enemy Number One. This has been historically predictable from territorial men, but the vitriol is ramping...

Robert De Niro Splits from Grace Hightower. Why It Doesn't Matter. Last week’s news cycle comprised of the very sad news that Robert De Niro split from his wife of 20 years, Grace Hightower. Critics of interracial marriage in the bowels of the black sector of YouT...

Is He Wasting Your Time? (The Top 2 Red Flags to Watch For) Ahhhh. So excited for you to see this video. (My director, Jameson Jordan, killed it this week.) I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person. But how do you know if someone is the wrong person...

Dying of Regret for Screwing Up Your Relationship? Watch This. Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?...

How to free yourself from self-limiting beliefs If you’ve been suckered into believing that your life is controlled by the tarot cards you've been dealt, better listen to this...

How to Be Brave in Love After Being Hurt If you can relate to this, today’s video is for you. You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue.

Is Love Still Possible in 2020? This video is an honest look at what the near future of dating could look like for you if you’re single right now...

Can You Stop a Racist from Becoming a Doctor? {LISTEN} One of your fellow medical students is openly racist, misogynistic, and homophobic. Do you have a duty to report this terrible person in hopes it prevents him from ever becoming a doctor with marginal...

Is It Risky to Flirt with Him? How to Read His Signs [VIDEO] “WTF? Do not use this.” This is a comment I received last week. It was in response to a flirty little text that I suggested you use with the guy who is on your mind right now. In fact, this ...

How to solve problems before they happen Spotting and solving problems before they happen is almost always the best solution hence the cliche that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. If this has even the slightest truth in it, w...

7 Irresistible Texts to Flirt From a Distance Hey :) In today’s video, I’m bringing you some practical advice on how to flirt at a distance. Some “Quarantexts,” if you will. Ahem. Think of them as little bits of irresistible charm t...

How to Keep Momentum with Someone You're Talking to Long-Distance Today’s brand spanking new video (woohoo) shows you exactly that, with something blindingly obvious that 99% of people are not using to their advantage.