How Can I Be So Good at Dating and Still Not Find Love? Alex feels that he is a little too good at dating. And much as it is fun, he doesn't feel like he is getting closer to finding love. How can his dating skills help him find love?

The Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear on You [VIDEO] It’s so annoying. You finally decide you like a guy. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine him as “future husband” material. And then suddenly...he start...

How To Get Him Interested in More Than Just Your Looks Ever wondered what makes a guy decide to message one woman on dating sites over the hundreds of others he chooses to ignore every day?? Most women believe that to succeed on dating sites, looks is th...

The Reason African Women Find it EASIER Than AA Women to Swirl Is there anything African women know about IR relationships that we African American women don’t know? Do they have any tips they should be sharing with us? Let's find out...

Could Interracial Love End Racism? Georgetown law professor, Sheryl Cashin thinks that interracial love is the cure for racism and white supremacy. I know; some of you are rolling your eyes. But think about it for a second. When Unc...

How to Get a Guy to Like You with These 2 Simple Words You wouldn’t believe how many women read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yeah, Matt... I get it. But there’s this one guy tha...

Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating. I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I bought a subscription to the New York Times weekend edition. I absolutely MUST ...

What He Says Vs. What He REALLY Means Ever had a guy say one of these phrases and wondered what it really meant? “You’re kind of intimidating...” “How come you’re single?” “I’m just having fun in my dating life right no...

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...

This Emotion Will Destroy Your Love Life... How’s this for scary? I’m in the studio on The Today Show opposite Kathy Lee and Hoda. It’s not my everyday situation, and I’m trying to make sure I’m on my best game. “So, what should a...