A Lunch Date Led to Lifelong Commitment

Posted by Leticia, 20 Jan

After choosing the usernames “QueenDee1964” and “Daddo2,” Debbie and Fred met on our site, fell in love and got married! This is how they found each other…

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“I got tired of dating men from sites who just wanted to ‘experience’ dating a black woman,” says Debbie, mincing no words. “Your interracial dating site helped me to find someone who was SURE they wanted to date a black woman, and the first actual date who showed up to meet me was the man I now know as my husband!”

Fred had been married before and his family felt he was ready to get back out there. “My kids thought it was time to meet someone special, so I tried the site and I thank you!”

Of course, at the outset, there were no guarantees they’d find “The One.” Asked if she was confident, Debbie says, “I wasn’t” and Fred’s answer is “not at all.” Confidence isn’t required, just patience. Still, in a matter of weeks, Fred found Debbie’s profile and became interested in getting to know her better. Here were Fred’s impressions of Debbie’s profile: “She was very sweet, beautiful and kind, very well put together and a Christian woman,” he says.

It’s funny, though, it did take him a few tries to get her attention! “Fred said ‘hi’ many times and I finally wrote back and said ‘hi,’” laughs Debbie. She was immediately happy she did, enjoying their early conversations. “He was very kind and a great listener, established, and a true gentleman,” she says of what impressed her most about him.

How did they make the jump to a face-to-face meeting? “Well, I asked her out for a lunch date, and she graciously accepted,” Fred remembers. “He asked, and I made time,” adds Debbie. “I wasn’t sure it was going to work out, but it did!”

To make this lunch date happen, Fred had to hop on a plane. But he did so gladly. “We met first at the small airport near where I live,” explains Debbie, “and then we drove to one of my favorite restaurants.”

Never a bad idea to take a woman to a place where she loves to eat! From there the couple continued to click and the rest is history, as they say. Debbie and Fred got hitched and hope to have many more happy times together.

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  1.   Iphy1 says:
    Posted: 18 Feb

    Let us always know where they come from, it helps to know how we interrace with each other. Like if she's Africa, what part and if he's European what part. Thanks.

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  2.   Ekpe1 says:
    Posted: 16 Feb

    Congratulations

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  3.   Ravenlulu says:
    Posted: 18 Mar 22

    Awesome, great love stories. I wish to be the first one to of story after this. I've widowed for close to 8 yrs. I want to experience love again. To love n to be loved.

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  4.   Justmike66 says:
    Posted: 27 Feb 22

    Met my woman little over 2 years here. She came to Louisiana and we've been together since then.

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  5.   Horseman-1 says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 21

    IT DOES FEEL GOOD TO SEE YOU GUYS FIND HAPPINESS

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  6.   Enoco says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 21

    Yes can chat

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  7. Posted: 12 Dec 21

    ok have a happy sunday enjoy life as you wish

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  8.   Dhiages says:
    Posted: 11 Dec 21

    Congratulations to all who found their loved ones still looking forward to find a man of my dreams

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  9.   Kunle- says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 20

    My GOD is great; omnipotent!

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  10.   Tee_Teea says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 20

    I like happy endings! Congratulations you guys look great together.

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  11.   Larrabee says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 20

    Every time I read all the success stories I always get a little sentimental but at the same time feeling confident that my time is just around the corner. Congratulations to every one of you. God Bless You.

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    • Shelli003 says:
      Posted: 13 Dec 21

      I share similar feelings as you mentioned about couples finding love. I keeping hoping that my time is near in finding love.

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  12.   Thalutu says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 20

    Sweet story of patience, thumbs up guys

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  13.   Omshazy says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 20

    God the universe worked thru the Afro romance site & each other. Wishing you much love & personal growth for you both. Lots of love & joy to you both

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  14.   Shon704 says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 20

    Congratulations!!! Great story!!

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  15.   bashie says:
    Posted: 24 Jan 20

    Great story! Congratulations to the sweet couple.

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  16.   reallycute says:
    Posted: 23 Jan 20

    Wow awesome story

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  17.   cassie193 says:
    Posted: 21 Jan 20

    Congrats to the lovely couple. May your marriage be filled with endless love and support!

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